Of expectations and life //

Me:
Nothing ever goes accoring to plan.
And I hate uncertainities cos it always leads to dissappointments.
And expectations just kill me bit by bit.
And taking it as it come doesn't work cos that's hard for me.That's really not how I work.So what do I do now?

Smoo:
I think when you're working with disappointment and uncertainty, its best to work with yourself most. Expectations of and for yourself, rather than with your life.
Accomplishing those, i think it makes life a little better.